To clarify, you are asking for a list of all the nations that were attacked by NATO nations (for example, Iraq, Afghanistan, Libya) or are you asking for specifically when NATO as a group had officially attacked anyone? Before if it's the former, then yeah, there's a list and if it's the latter, then that's just a meaningless joke.
"Dude" you've been doing a shitload of complaining but nobody here has shown that NATO has actually tried to take a country through military force. Nor have they been "aggressive" against Russia. If country "A" asks to join NATO that's hardly NATO being "aggressive". Ask yourself why these governments aren't running to Russia to protect them from NATO. If Russia was a good neighbor there would be no need for countries to join NATO now would there?
Oh no no no, it is much more complicated that that. First of all, due to the greed of politicians, countries can be bought and turned into attack dogs against their own interests and their citizens would not know with effective propaganda. Secondly, America has the ability to be generous with other people's things here, thus making friends while the resident regional power needs to keep those resources for itself and cannot be generous with them. Let me give you an example. The US has good relationships with Mexico and Canada... because neither can afford to have bad relations with the US. Now imagine that Country X half the world away has developed a superweapon, used it once, and caused the US to surrender. That country can now declare that Mexico will now get back the entire Western coast that the US had previously robbed from it. Then, it can move the Canadian border down and start to encroach on American territory, giving away American resources to the Canadians. Country X can be generous with American resources because it's not paying for them but the US will do its best to resist because those are its things that it needs for its citizens and to grow with. Suddenly, you now have Mexico and Canada loving Country X and on very bad terms with the US, and although neither nation historically had the power to challenge the US, Country X stands behind them so now they can make threats, act like little dipshits to America all day long because they are mice standing in front of a lion. When the US tries to defend its resources and rights from being bullied away from it, those countries will justify their efforts to take them with anti-US propaganda to their citizens. Then, by your logic, we can say, "If the US wasn't such a terrible shitty neighbor, it wouldn't have these relationship problems!"