No, the cornerstone of an amicable relationship is respect of your strength. If you sacrifice your own interests for better relations, the lesson that you teach is that to get something out of you, one only needs to push you until you give concessions. Then, they will start again and take more, and you will back off again because you don't want to make an enemy. It is endless. If you want a real relationship that is worth having, the other party must respect your strength and want to be your friend as it fears being your enemy. When China and India end hostilities, it will be because India has realized that with the entire West defeated by China's challenge, India has no chance so it had better make compromises to earn China's grace or it will suffer. It's the only positive relationship worth having with India.