let me point out a specific instance of not taking it seriously when they could've taken it seriously.Rome did, but India is more akin to forcibly unified Europe, not Rome. And while Rome is long gone, Indiavas a cultural entity is still more or less with us, despite being about as old.
If taking seriously means drastic solutions, they can't. Only extremely authoritarian (in this context it means capable) leaders can sway such countries... provided anyone can at all, as unifying India into something unitary has never happened - it's that hard.
And such leaders don't get born during Peace.
There's no way to Qin India; careful treading, manoeuvering and placating interests is the only safe way.
India pulled out of FGFA Su-57 project with Russia, with the excuse that Su-57 was both immature and obsolete. First, I have to ask, what right does India have to mock Russia of all countries as having an immature and obsolete program when they can barely make a Mig-21 equivalent? Second, look at what China did.
China humbly bought the Su-27 from Russia in 1992 even though it was only on parity with the F-16s that Taiwan received the same year. And Russia was in very bad shape that year, with no guarantee that the Su-27 would get any support whatsoever.
In the next 25 years, China studied everything about the Su-27, despite being laughed at as being a copycat. First it was indigenized as the J-11. Then, structural components and avionics were upgraded in the J-11B. Then, a far upgraded version was made as the J-16. Now it is the best Flanker in the world.
India could've done that, but for bragging rights, refused. They believed they were entitled to a better plane they can just walk into, demand all the IP for, and walk away with. No, it doesn't work that way, nobody will teach you everything step by step for free, and nobody will reveal their best secrets even if paid.. They could've humbled themselves, begged the Russians for help, paid any price. But they refused. They wanted a deal, they wanted to be treated like kings, and today, no matter what, at least the Su-57 is flying with Russian colors. Where's AMCA?