Google, Apple, etc. wouldn't need to make EUV by itself any more than ASML does. They could buy mirrors from Zeiss (a more diversified company), photo resists from Japan, etc. You're forgetting your initial argument, which is that EUV production must be super super super difficult because only ASML can do it in the entire world.He says Google and Apple can poach lead engineers from ASML,but that doesn't make any difference,since ASML itself doesn't make all components. So the short answer is no, Google and Apple can not make EUV by themself. Heck Apple cannot even make baseband chip despite their desire to break free from Qualcomm.
EUV production is indeed difficult, but it's not because ASML is so much better than everyone else. It's because of the nature of a niche industry. A competitor to ASML from the West doesn't need to recreate the entire supply chain - it'd just need to recreate ASML. But nobody is doing it because the business doesn't make sense.