Chapter 1 On Being Filial at Home
Chapter 1 At Home, Be Dutiful to My Parents
父母呼。应勿缓。
When your mother or father is calling, do not be slow to respond.
When my parents call me, I will answer them right away.
父母命。行勿懒。
When your parents tell you to do something, do not be lazy or sulky.
When they ask me to do something, I will do it quickly.
父母教。须敬听。
When your parents need to instruct you, you should listen with patient respect.
When my parents instruct you, I will listen respectfully.
父母责。须顺承。
Whenever your parents must scold you, accept it with faithful compliance.
When my parents reproach me, I will obey and accept their scolding. I will try hard
to change and improve myself, to start anew.
冬则温。夏则凊。
In the winter, make sure they are warm. in the summer, make sure they are cool. in
the winter, I will keep my parents warm; in the summer, I will keep your parents
cool.
晨则省。昏则定。
In the morning, cheerfully greet them. in the evening, tell them “Good night.”
I will always greet my parents in the morning to show them that I care.
At night I will always make sure my parents rest well.
出必告。反必面。
If you plan to go out, tell your parents. report to them when you get back.
Before going out, I must tell my parents where I am going, for parents are always
concerned about their children.
After returning home, I must go and see my parents to let them know I am back, so
they do not worry about me.
居有常。业无变。
Settle down in one certain place. do not switch from one job to another.
I will maintain a permanent place to stay and lead a routine life.
I will persist in whatever I do and will not change my aspirations at will.
事虽小。勿擅为。
No matter how small the affair, do not act just as you please.
A matter might be trivial, but if it is wrong to do it or unfair to the other person, I must not do it thinking it will bear little or no consequence.
苟擅为。子道亏。
For if you act just as you please, then you have not performed as you should.
If I do, I am not being a dutiful child because my parents would not want to see me
doing things that are irrational or illegal.