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Lieutenant General
An eye for an eye makes the world blind. I'm sure you've heard of that before. Payback is basically vengeance, or another fool's logic in believing paying them back what they did will make the person stop. It doesn't always stop. If it did, Israeli-Palestinian conflict would have been long over. If both sides of the Cold War world used "payback", we would be born with 3 eyes in a nuclear wasteland. And think about it, do you think the person who committed this act against you, didn't actually know what they're getting themselves into? If they don't, that's because you presented to them with this image prior, and that's something else. Even then, no one use "payback" as a means to deliver a message; it doesn't even make any logical sense how "payback", in itself, will make anyone stop. If I'm the offender and I was hit back and told that's called payback, I'm gonna contempt that person even more, laugh at that person even more, and also now I'm actually irritated.
The only times something even remotely resembling what you're talking about works is called self-defence and deterrence strategy. Self-defence is for the notion of protecting oneself, and using the appropriate amount of force or actions in order to stop the threat. This could include actions strong enough to decommission the other party, and in extreme cases, to neutralize the threat completely because the threat pose no alternative methods (either take them out or be killed). Those are "extreme" circumstances. And even the playground logic "standing up for oneself" is meant as a message of deterrence and self-preservation.
Impulsive behaviours through violence doesn't get you too far in this society, where law and order governs where we live. You can say people don't think about these, but that's why so many people end up in prisons or have criminal records: It's because people don't think before they act, or know to draw distinctions and lines of what they're doing. And while it's true many people don't think about it, once again I'm not going to follow collective ignorance and stupidity and let that be my label as well. Also, these aren't even philosophy; just simply thinking a little bit further to know what you're doing and up to the next time you're about to put yourself in this situation. And if you think that's philosophy, try and tell that to the lawyers and those who write contracts to the most specific wordings. Try and tell the police what you're doing is payback when you get caught curb-stomping someone for stealing. I want to see how that idea of yours work. And you do know there's an adjective people often use to associate this type of behaviour right? Reckless.
Oh and are you going to go 100mph to "payback" someone for cutting you on the road? Payback? I kinda hate the fact I have to literally take apart every single bit of every component in order to explain things to you.
You are swerving to a different argument here. Obviously you have a problem with a Chinese hitting back at someone who had hit them first. It's called self defense, sometimes it requires a little more force depending on the situation. Ever heard of standing your ground? Letting the bully hit you and not hitting back does not make the pain go away. So in your obvious logic the victims should just depend on the goodness and the kindness of the bullies heart to make them stop?