Why "the West" gets China wrong

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pissybits

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I agreed but the problem with this solution is that for every constructive criticism Chinese people did the western pundits will exaggerate the problems 10X in order to keep China down or contained because they hold the soft power of the world. Until China is safely developed and no longer had to worried about some cheap pundits from the west interfering with its progress, THAN can we have a constructive dialogue without the loud mouths disrupting us.

The pundits target one particular type of Western mindset, smart people in the West know crap when they hear it just like smart people anywhere else. It doesn't matter how ridiculous their exaggerations are, do you see it stopping investment flow into China from abroad? Maybe it makes a few businesses more reluctant to want to do business with China but in the end that comes mostly at their expense, not China's.

I counter that China will never become developed unless we engage in constructive criticism on our own country, we can understand why those foreign pundits are doing what they do, because we've done the same thing for so many years. If we allow ourselves to become antagonized by their nonsense, and let our opinions be formed in reaction to their slander, we will not be able to look at ourselves truthfully because our priority will be attacking them, not helping ourselves.

If we stop worrying about what these clowns want to say (it shows nothing but their own weakness) and focus on the real problems in China that need our attention, then we can make genuine progress and China will have a better future as a result.
 

pissybits

Junior Member
Anyone can be a philosopher if you can get enough people to listen to you. One can argue Hitler was a man of peace if everyone just obeyed his wishes without question or challenge. Because if everyone had instead of fighting him, that would be peace. In the 1990s when the revolt against affirmative action especially in college admissions in the US heated up, the Democrats were trying to figure out a solution where both sides could agree. What did they come up with? A new term called "under-representative minorities. " Translation... In order to keep whites happy while not diminishing affirmative action, they would instead discriminate against Asians because there were just too many of them disproportionately taking up slots in college compared to their percentage of the population despite being the best academically qualified. So for the so-called greater good someone was to going to get screwed and be a sacrifice. Hitler could make that same argument.

Why should the Chinese take abuse? Because it's natural that others fear new powers on the rise? Yeah and they can expect retaliation because it's natural for one to defend themselves when wronged. For all the people who call for the Chinese to accept being abused, your names and address should be put on a list and anyone who fears the Chinese can come visit you and do anything they want to you since you think it's okay.

I don't know what you're trying to say with the first part of your statement so I'll leave it be.

I don't think the Chinese should take abuse, but there are battles worth fighting and there are battles that aren't. If by retaliating to a few pandering pundits you allow your own opinion to become warped so that you stop being able to see your own faults in an objective way, then you have missed the match and lost the fight.
 

AssassinsMace

Lieutenant General
I don't know what you're trying to say with the first part of your statement so I'll leave it be.

I don't think the Chinese should take abuse, but there are battles worth fighting and there are battles that aren't. If by retaliating to a few pandering pundits you allow your own opinion to become warped so that you stop being able to see your own faults in an objective way, then you have missed the match and lost the fight.

Are you talking about the Liang that was born in 1873? If so since he lived during China's greatest humiliation, his philosophy didn't seem to be very successful. Was it because no one listened to him? If so then no can say he was right. One can argue Hitler was a man of peace by noting no one gave his plan a chance because everyone resisted it. And why did people resist it? Because they saw themselves being sacrifice for his idea of peace.

What battles are worth fighting for you to get to decide? Isn't that up to the individual? Reading your posts you seem to want the Chinese to follow the US as a model. The US is about individualism. In this thread we are noting cases not making a call to arms. We are being informed not censored. Those are said to be very American. If you're reading this thread and concluding Chinese should pick their battles, then you are saying issues shouldn't even be noted or discussed. Why not have Chinese informed of what goes on. Because Chinese might get emotionally heated? Well that's what happens when people see wrong being committed. Wouldn't it be more appropriate that the offender cease being offensive? No, it seems to always come down to repressing the Chinese because it's where they expect the least resistance not because it's just. Just like skirting dealing with affirmative action by sacrificing another because it's easier to screw Asians and they don't have to worry about retaliation because people are telling them this is not a battle worth fighting. So what battles are worth fighting?
 
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pissybits

Junior Member
Are you talking about the Liang that was born in 1873? If so since he lived during China's greatest humiliation, his philosophy didn't seem to be very successful. Was it because no one listened to him? If so then no can say he was right. One can argue Hitler was a man of peace by noting no one gave his plan a chance because everyone resisted it. And why did people resist it? Because they saw themselves being sacrifice for his idea of peace.

What battles are worth fighting for you to get to decide? Isn't that up to the individual? Reading your posts you seem to want the Chinese to follow the US as a model. The US is about individualism. In this thread we are noting cases not making a call to arms. We are being informed not censored. Those are said to be very American. If you're reading this thread and concluding Chinese should pick their battles, then you are saying issues shouldn't even be noted or discussed. Why not have Chinese informed of what goes on. Because Chinese might get emotionally heated? Well that's what happens when people see wrong being committed. Wouldn't it be more appropriate that the offender cease being offensive? No, it seems to always come down to repressing the Chinese because it's where they expect the least resistance not because it's just. Just like skirting dealing with affirmative action by sacrificing another because it's easier to screw Asians and they don't have to worry about retaliation because people are telling them this is not a battle worth fighting. So what battles are worth fighting?

Are you trying to call me a 带路党 because you have no way of attacking my argument rationally? Where-ever did you get the impression that I think China should become like the U.S.? Is it because I say some things that are critical of China's current way of doing things? If you are using this to say that I have a pro-American agenda, then you are truly the type of people Mr. Liang warned us against 100 years ago. Also, Liang may not have been successful in his will to reform China, but that is because he ran into obstacles from political conservatives who refused to open their eyes and see what dire straits China was in. You cannot say he was not right just because he failed in his endeavor, because it was men like him, and 鲁迅, and 陈独秀, who set the philosophical foundation for Chinese nationalist renewal and inspired the likes of Mao Zedong. If I lived in 15th century Europe and said the world was round, but nobody believes me, does that make me wrong? If you don't even know who 梁启超 is, then please gain some literacy on the development of modern China before you make baseless comments.

I noted the issue of Western China-bashers in my original post, never did I say that you weren't allowed to discuss it. We're discussing it now aren't we? What I said was that we shouldn't let it go to our heads and affect how we look at China and respond to criticism about China. These pundits are not going to stop dumping on China just because you support everything about China. Yes it's reasonable to expect Chinese people to become angry, but to put it in simple terms: haters gonna hate. By altering our own objectivity in response to someone else' insecurity, we may feel like we are achieving a victory but we only hurt ourselves with this type of cheap self-assurance. If someone calls me a racial slur on the street, I'll lay them out. Just like when affirmative action hurts academic opportunities for Asians, it is our duty to oppose it. But when some pundits want to spread lies about China to make Westerners feel better... whatever. It doesn't really mean anything. If you want to refute them on that particular website or source, fine, but when you let it affect your ability to see yourself truthfully, so that you see everything through a pro-China/anti-West lens, then you've let them make you insecure.
 
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AssassinsMace

Lieutenant General
Are you trying to call me a 带路党 because you have no way of attacking my argument rationally? Where-ever did you get the impression that I think China should become like the U.S.? Is it because I say some things that are critical of China's current way of doing things? If you are using this to say that I have a pro-American agenda, then you are truly the type of people Mr. Liang warned us against 100 years ago. Also, Liang may not have been successful in his will to reform China, but that is because he ran into obstacles from political conservatives who refused to open their eyes and see what dire straits China was in. You cannot say he was not right just because he failed in his endeavor, because it was men like him, and 鲁迅, and 陈独秀, who set the philosophical foundation for Chinese nationalist renewal and inspired the likes of Mao Zedong. If I lived in 15th century Europe and said the world was round, but nobody believes me, does that make me wrong? If you don't even know who 梁启超 is, then please gain some literacy on the development of modern China before you make baseless comments.

I noted the issue of Western China-bashers in my original post, never did I say that you weren't allowed to discuss it. We're discussing it now aren't we? What I said was that we shouldn't let it go to our heads and affect how we look at China and respond to criticism about China. These pundits are not going to stop dumping on China just because you support everything about China. Yes it's reasonable to expect Chinese people to become angry, but to put it in simple terms: haters gonna hate. By altering our own objectivity in response to someone else' insecurity, we may feel like we are achieving a victory but we only hurt ourselves with this type of cheap self-assurance. If someone calls me a racial slur on the street, I'll lay them out. Just like when affirmative action hurts academic opportunities for Asians, it is our duty to oppose it. But when some pundits want to spread lies about China to make Westerners feel better... whatever. It doesn't really mean anything. If you want to refute them on that particular website or source, fine, but when you let it affect your ability to see yourself truthfully, so that you see everything through a pro-China/anti-West lens, then you've let them make you insecure.

You have no rationale because you haven't shown anything for it. Like I said Liang lived during the worst humiliation China has ever faced. So what did his philosophy do for China? Like I said is it because no one listened to him? That doesn't prove it he was right. I never said he was wrong. I just said he never proved he was right. If you noticed I am critical of China just like I'm critical of you. So you fail to see that and only think I'm blaming foreigners. Yeah I see plenty of Chinese to blame and one is this Chinese thing to tell others how to conduct themselves as a group first and not as an individual. Maybe I'm only suppose to focus only on the government like you want? Then that's as narrow-minded as only focusing on foreigners to blame.

People think differently. I may not agree with what they say but I'm not going to tell them how to think. You promote Western values but you reject the Western value of individualism because you seem to want to dictate to the Chinese what's appropriate conduct. That's what I find strange that you promote Western values but it's very Chinese to tell other Chinese how they should conduct themselves. It is you that cannot accept outside ideas because you categorize people as to think I'm what's wrong with China just because I don't follow with what you say. I can be critical of the government but cannot be critical of you? You have replied to my previous posts being critical and I have not responded until now and you seem to be very sensitive. I picked and chose my battles but for once since I'm critical of yours, you're immediately up in arms. Ironic.
 
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solarz

Brigadier
If we stop worrying about what these clowns want to say (it shows nothing but their own weakness) and focus on the real problems in China that need our attention, then we can make genuine progress and China will have a better future as a result.

That is a false dichotomy. Pointing out western media bias against China does not prevent us from looking at China's internal problems, and vice versa.

As for the "real problems in China", most of us here are not Chinese citizens. While we are certainly concerned about the challenges that face China, these issues are still relatively far from our daily lives.

On the other hand, a lot of us forumites are ethnic Chinese living in western nations. Therefore, anti-China bias in the (western) mainstream media does affect us, if not directly then at least with far more immediacy than China's domestic issues.
 

pissybits

Junior Member
You have no rationale because you haven't shown anything for it. Like I said Liang lived during the worst humiliation China has ever faced. So what did his philosophy do for China? Like I said is it because no one listened to him? That doesn't prove it he was right. I never said he was wrong. I just said he never proved he was right. If you noticed I am critical of China just like I'm critical of you. So you fail to see that and only think I'm blaming foreigners. Yeah I see plenty of Chinese to blame and one is this Chinese thing to tell others how to conduct themselves as a group first and not as an individual. Maybe I'm only suppose to focus only on the government like you want? Then that's as narrow-minded as only focusing on foreigners to blame.

People think differently. I may not agree with what they say but I'm not going to tell them how to think. You promote Western values but you reject the Western value of individualism because you seem to want to dictate to the Chinese what's appropriate conduct. That's what I find strange that you promote Western values but it's very Chinese to tell other Chinese how they should conduct themselves. It is you that cannot accept outside ideas because you categorize people as to think I'm what's wrong with China just because I don't follow with what you say. I can be critical of the government but cannot be critical of you? You have replied to my previous posts being critical and I have not responded until now and you seem to be very sensitive. I picked and chose my battles but for once since I'm critical of yours, you're immediately up in arms. Ironic.


liang was a reformer, if liang didn't live through the worse crisis in chinese history, there would be no need for reformist philosophy now would there? people not listening to him does not show anything but their own reluctance to see the truth. also you keep saying i promote western values, but i challenge you to find one thing that i've said that supports this claim apart from criticising people who think like you.

who said you can't be critical of me? but when you don't attack my argument and only focus on what's western and what's chinese (you're still doing it) you fail to see the point altogether. what you've done here is misconstrue the contention, what does "individualism" or "being chinese" have anything to do with a useful way of reacting to pundits? these are only labels you apply to distract from what i was talking about.

i don't understand what is ironic, should i not defend my position and clarify my thoughts in a reasonable way when it is directly challenged? if you respond to any and all criticism about china by calling it something pro-western, then you ARE a part of what is wrong with china and i stand by that claim.

at the end of the day, you are free to think however you damn well choose. however some ways of thinking makes more sense than others, and i wanted to give a logical argument as to why one mode of thinking may be more reasonable. nothing more, nothing less. i think that is the whole point of discussion and forums in the first place.

is you look at the previous posts in this "discussion" we're having, you will find that my statements are more about asserting claims and explaining why, while yours are mostly about attacking my personal credibility. i think that proves something even if the content of my arguments don't.
 
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pissybits

Junior Member
That is a false dichotomy. Pointing out western media bias against China does not prevent us from looking at China's internal problems, and vice versa.

As for the "real problems in China", most of us here are not Chinese citizens. While we are certainly concerned about the challenges that face China, these issues are still relatively far from our daily lives.

On the other hand, a lot of us forumites are ethnic Chinese living in western nations. Therefore, anti-China bias in the (western) mainstream media does affect us, if not directly then at least with far more immediacy than China's domestic issues.


you make a good point about what affects us immediately as chinese people in the west, however i never meant to say that the western media bias shouldn't be noticed or even opposed. my main point was and still is that we shouldn't let it affect our judgements about china.

it certainly is not the case that everyone will respond to china-bashing in an irrational way, but i know that antagonism breeds antagonism, and there are chinese people i speak to (both online and offline, in china and abroad) who seem to want to support everything about china and turn a blind eye to the negative aspects, and who excuse themselves by saying that they are "merely reacting to the west."

you've probably noticed this attitude as well, and while i understand why some people might be pressed into thinking in this way, i am against this type of thinking because it poisons our rationality and our objectivity.
 
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AssassinsMace

Lieutenant General
liang was a reformer, if liang didn't live through the worse crisis in chinese history, there would be no need for reformist philosophy now would there? people not listening to him does not show anything but their own reluctance to see the truth. also you keep saying i promote western values, but i challenge you to find one thing that i've said that supports this claim apart from criticising people who think like you.

who said you can't be critical of me? but when you don't attack my argument and only focus on what's western and what's chinese (you're still doing it) you fail to see the point altogether. what you've done here is misconstrue the contention, what does "individualism" or "being chinese" have anything to do with a useful way of reacting to pundits? these are only labels you apply to distract from what i was talking about.

i don't understand what is ironic, should i not defend my position and clarify my thoughts in a reasonable way when it is directly challenged? if you respond to any and all criticism about china to be something pro-western, then you ARE a part of what is wrong with china and i stand by that claim.

at the end of the day, you are free to think however you damn well choose. however some ways of thinking makes more sense than others, and i wanted to give a logical argument as to why one mode of thinking may be more reasonable. nothing more, nothing less. i think that is the whole point of discussion and forums in the first place.

is you look at the previous posts in this "discussion" we're having, you will find that my statements are more about asserting claims and explaining why, while yours are mostly about attacking my personal credibility. i think that proves something even if the content of my arguments don't.

That's pretty hypocritical since you're the one came out accusing me of being what's wrong with China just because I questioned your points. Where did I insult you first unless just questioning you is an insult.


First post of mine that wasn't a reply directly to you but you seem to have a problem with.

Anyone can be a philosopher if you can get enough people to listen to you. One can argue Hitler was a man of peace if everyone just obeyed his wishes without question or challenge. Because if everyone had instead of fighting him, that would be peace. In the 1990s when the revolt against affirmative action especially in college admissions in the US heated up, the Democrats were trying to figure out a solution where both sides could agree. What did they come up with? A new term called "under-representative minorities. " Translation... In order to keep whites happy while not diminishing affirmative action, they would instead discriminate against Asians because there were just too many of them disproportionately taking up slots in college compared to their percentage of the population despite being the best academically qualified. So for the so-called greater good someone was to going to get screwed and be a sacrifice. Hitler could make that same argument.

Why should the Chinese take abuse? Because it's natural that others fear new powers on the rise? Yeah and they can expect retaliation because it's natural for one to defend themselves when wronged. For all the people who call for the Chinese to accept being abused, your names and address should be put on a list and anyone who fears the Chinese can come visit you and do anything they want to you since you think it's okay.

My second post in response to your reply.

Are you talking about the Liang that was born in 1873? If so since he lived during China's greatest humiliation, his philosophy didn't seem to be very successful. Was it because no one listened to him? If so then no can say he was right. One can argue Hitler was a man of peace by noting no one gave his plan a chance because everyone resisted it. And why did people resist it? Because they saw themselves being sacrifice for his idea of peace.

What battles are worth fighting for you to get to decide? Isn't that up to the individual? Reading your posts you seem to want the Chinese to follow the US as a model. The US is about individualism. In this thread we are noting cases not making a call to arms. We are being informed not censored. Those are said to be very American. If you're reading this thread and concluding Chinese should pick their battles, then you are saying issues shouldn't even be noted or discussed. Why not have Chinese informed of what goes on. Because Chinese might get emotionally heated? Well that's what happens when people see wrong being committed. Wouldn't it be more appropriate that the offender cease being offensive? No, it seems to always come down to repressing the Chinese because it's where they expect the least resistance not because it's just. Just like skirting dealing with affirmative action by sacrificing another because it's easier to screw Asians and they don't have to worry about retaliation because people are telling them this is not a battle worth fighting. So what battles are worth fighting?

Where's the insult?

Now here's your response to the above.

Are you trying to call me a 带路党 because you have no way of attacking my argument rationally? Where-ever did you get the impression that I think China should become like the U.S.? Is it because I say some things that are critical of China's current way of doing things? If you are using this to say that I have a pro-American agenda, then you are truly the type of people Mr. Liang warned us against 100 years ago. Also, Liang may not have been successful in his will to reform China, but that is because he ran into obstacles from political conservatives who refused to open their eyes and see what dire straits China was in. You cannot say he was not right just because he failed in his endeavor, because it was men like him, and 鲁迅, and 陈独秀, who set the philosophical foundation for Chinese nationalist renewal and inspired the likes of Mao Zedong. If I lived in 15th century Europe and said the world was round, but nobody believes me, does that make me wrong? If you don't even know who 梁启超 is, then please gain some literacy on the development of modern China before you make baseless comments.

I noted the issue of Western China-bashers in my original post, never did I say that you weren't allowed to discuss it. We're discussing it now aren't we? What I said was that we shouldn't let it go to our heads and affect how we look at China and respond to criticism about China. These pundits are not going to stop dumping on China just because you support everything about China. Yes it's reasonable to expect Chinese people to become angry, but to put it in simple terms: haters gonna hate. By altering our own objectivity in response to someone else' insecurity, we may feel like we are achieving a victory but we only hurt ourselves with this type of cheap self-assurance. If someone calls me a racial slur on the street, I'll lay them out. Just like when affirmative action hurts academic opportunities for Asians, it is our duty to oppose it. But when some pundits want to spread lies about China to make Westerners feel better... whatever. It doesn't really mean anything. If you want to refute them on that particular website or source, fine, but when you let it affect your ability to see yourself truthfully, so that you see everything through a pro-China/anti-West lens, then you've let them make you insecure.

What's in bold is you first attacking and insulting me directly. Did I question your literacy? If daring to question you at all and daring to challenge you is considered an insult, then you already insulted me long before at all the posts where you replied to me but I didn't respond. You have a weird sense of right and wrong because by your logic you have long been insulting me before I ever first replied to you. Ironic again how you point out how Chinese don't criticize themselves. You seem to be very sensitive to criticism like you accuse Chinese of. Take your own advice.

Just because I questioned you, I'm all that's wrong with China. I was born in the US. My family has goes back in the US to the 1800s. So how can I be what's wrong with China? Because I'm daring to give my opinion that you don't like? I'm not conforming or conducting myself according to your wishes? That's what has always been wrong with China. China has always been like you want it to be. Passive and do nothing. Demanding conformity and the same conduct with all. Always worried about it's image.

I knew some Chinese whose parents who taught them to be non-violent. They would rather have their children be beaten up by bullies than to have them fight back and defend themselves. Why, because they were more concern about what it would look like to other Chinese that they're children were not passive as culture demands them. And the kicker was even though they obeyed their parents and didn't fight and still got beat up, the parents would blame their children for putting themselves in that situation. Much like how you think it's more the Chinese fault and blame themselves for whatever and not anyone else. You act like the Chinese don't do what you want them to do and that's why they're in the situation they're in for whatever complaints. I've got news for you... the Chinese are what you want them to be and what has it gotten them? I've asked it before and you seem to never answer it.


you make a good point about what affects us immediately as chinese people in the west, however i never meant to say that the western media bias shouldn't be noticed or even opposed. my main point was and still is that we shouldn't let it affect our judgements about china.

it certainly is not the case that everyone will respond to china-bashing in an irrational way, but i know that antagonism breeds antagonism, and there are chinese people i speak to (both online and offline, in china and abroad) who seem to want to support everything about china and turn a blind eye to the negative aspects, and who excuse themselves by saying that they are "merely reacting to the west."

you've probably noticed this attitude as well, and while i understand why some people might be pressed into thinking in this way, i am against this type of thinking because it poisons our rationality and our objectivity.

I see self-criticism all the time. I never seen any Chinese that thinks everything is all right and don't want anything to change. You want a political show of admission. It's just like the communists and their need to get confessions. Yeah if you beat someone long enough, they'll confess to anything you want them to say. So what's the purpose of getting a confession? It's not the truth. It's for the public so they can say they were politically right. In this forum you see non-Chinese complaining about the same thing. That Chinese don't admit that there's anything wrong. No, it's just they just don't need to admit it to them because how does admitting it to them change things. It doesn't. What does such an admission do? Do the wrongs magically become righted? No. The non-Chinese just wants a confession that the Chinese have it wrong so they can go around saying they were right and therefore the Chinese have to obey them from now on because they were right.
 
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pissybits

Junior Member
i disagree with your views but i admire your persistance. i can tell that i have engaged your attention and got you thinking into this issue which was my main objective anyways.....

but here's why you're wrong:D

That's pretty hypocritical since you're the one came out accusing me of being what's wrong with China just because I questioned your points. Where did I insult you first unless just questioning you is an insult.

what's this about insults? when did i say you insulted me? i said you spent the majority of your argument attacking my credibility (pro-american, pro-western) instead of my argument, and the proof is in the pudding.

First post of mine that wasn't a reply directly to you but you seem to have a problem with.

LOL who else were you resplying to then? i'm sorry for being so presumptuous but from what you said about philosophers and your subsequent defence, i could only conclude that you were responding (directly or indirectly) to my post.

Where's the insult?

again, i never said anything about insults, i said your primary focus is on what my political agenda rather than my argument, eg- attacking my personal credibility, otherwise known as an ad hominem fallacy. however because you cannot show that i even display such a "pro-western" political stance yet continued to base your argument on that, you thereby commit the straw man fallacy.

What's in bold is you first attacking and insulting me directly. Did I question your literacy? If daring to question you at all and daring to challenge you is considered an insult, then you already insulted me long before at all the posts where you replied to me but I didn't respond. You have a weird sense of right and wrong because by your logic you have long been insulting me before I ever first replied to you.

nope, never said you insulted me. nice try straw manning me though. all i did was point out where you misconstrued my argument and kept labelling me as being pro-american on baseless grounds, which conveniently is evident in your own quotation of yourself.

also, please stop trying to distract from the original focus, this argument was not about who insulted whom or whatever. it is the certain fallacious attitude of some chinese people in reaction to media china-bashers that i was trying to pinpoint; i apologize if you feel what i said was too harsh, but based on the content of your "reasoning," my conclusions about how your attitude falls in line with the people liang opposed still stand.

Just because I questioned you, I'm all that's wrong with China. I was born in the US. My family has goes back in the US to the 1800s. So how can I be what's wrong with China? Because I'm daring to give my opinion that you don't like? I'm not conforming or conducting myself according to your wishes? That's what has always been wrong with China. China has always been like you want it to be. Passive and do nothing. Demanding conformity and the same conduct with all. Always worried about it's image.

the attitude you've shown by asserting that everything critical of china is pro-western, that everything has to be seen in a "china vs west/us vs them" mentality is exactly one of the biggest things wrong with china.

also, if i were so worried about "conforming," and "preserving china's image" i certainly wouldn't be sitting here arguing that chinese people shouls be self-critical, would i? your statement is oxymoronic.

I knew some Chinese whose parents who taught them to be non-violent. They would rather have their children be beaten up by bullies than to have them fight back and defend themselves. Why, because they were more concern about what it would look like to other Chinese that they're children were not passive as culture demands them. And the kicker was even though they obeyed their parents and didn't fight and still got beat up, the parents would blame their children for putting themselves in that situation. Much like how you think it's more the Chinese fault and blame themselves for whatever and not anyone else. You act like the Chinese don't do what you want them to do and that's why they're in the situation they're in for whatever complaints. I've got news for you... the Chinese are what you want them to be and what has it gotten them? I've asked it before and you seem to never answer it.

i never answered that part of your statements because i believe it to be unrelated directly to what we are discussing and hence non-sequitur, however if you press me for an answer i shall oblige.
some chinese people in the west like to keep to themselves so as to not 惹事生非, but this is entirely irrelevant to chinese people's political attitudes no matter how much you try and conflate the two. maybe you don't have this perspective, (being born in the u.s. and all) but there are many people in china who like to ignore all the bad things about china, whom when presented with criticism immediately resort to blaming the west or saying it's "foreign rumours." this is the view supported by the ccp for stability, and i am fully against such a complacent and irresponsible attitude. you seem to think of chinese people as being bullied, but why take the position of the weak? china today is not so weak, and these china-bashing pundits will not hurt china nor will they come to your house to beat you up.

if you keep envisioning yourself in the position of the weak you will always just feel sorry for yourself and things will never change. don't hide under your bed and shout insults. instead, realize what you can to to become stronger and change yourself for the better. understand that these pundits in fact are coming from the position of the weak, so don't even play into rheir b.s. realize that they are wrong, but don't take it personally and most of all don't let it warp your perspective because then you become just like them and their audience: impervious to reason.

I see self-criticism all the time. I never seen any Chinese that thinks everything is all right and don't want anything to change. You want a political show of admission. It's just like the communists and their need to get confessions. Yeah if you beat someone long enough, they'll confess to anything you want them to say. So what's the purpose of getting a confession? It's not the truth. It's for the public so they can say they were politically right. In this forum you see non-Chinese complaining about the same thing. That Chinese don't admit that there's anything wrong. No, it's just they just don't need to admit it to them because how does admitting it to them change things. It doesn't. What does such an admission do? Do the wrongs magically become righted? No. The non-Chinese just wants a confession that the Chinese have it wrong so they can go around saying they were right and therefore the Chinese have to obey them from now on because they were right.

lol no confessions necessary i'm not your padre. after all, the chinese people on this forum are not the ones perpetrating wrongs in china. (you better not be)
all i'm trying to do is to get people to realize that china-bashing pundits have the power to polarize not only the opinions of the audience they pander to, but also the ability to antagonize chinese people into seeing their own country in a less than partial way as a reactionary response.

i think it's important because the fundamental step to bettering oneself, one's country, anything, is truth. you can't right all the wrongs simply by admitting them, but how can anyone ever make a difference if they ignore the facts? besides, talking from a more impartial perspective allows for much more constructive and interesting discussions. everything else is pandering.
 
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