So the Russians should have bombed everything in Ukraine with overwhelming force regardless of civilian causalities?This is caused by Russian weakness. And it is weakness. If they try but are unable to secure quick gains with overwhelming force then they are physically weak. But that's not too bad. Physical weakness can be overcome.
The worst fear is if they are able but unwilling. That would be mental weakness which is the most dangerous of all, because then that calls into question not just Russian strength but Russian resolve and makes their escalation threats hollow. That invites intervention.
A failed escalation is better than no escalation at all because at least they won't question Russian resolve.
They should have stockpiled at least dozens of kilotons of thermobaric missiles and bombs to use in Ukraine?
A lot of civilian causalities would mean harsher sanctions.