However, it is also not a good way to start an argument by suggesting that "everyone who thinks XYZ is doing so because they are emotional and just want to keep up with the joneses".
That's not my argument. Read again 2nd to 5th paragraph but not as separate statements but as single continuous line of reasoning.
It's the problem of troop morale like when you order an infantry charge at enemy positions defended by artillery but have no artillery of your own. The effectiveness of that charge is determined by morale, and morale is determined by the emotional state of the troops. Planners know this and also can relate to this - hence "emotional reasoning".
However, I do believe that the PLA has a requirement to be able to comprehensively strike US bases at the second island chain distances and very shortly would have requirements to be capable of striking at US bases beyond that, such as Australia and Hawaii (if they don't already).
This is partly a reflection of what I envision PLA strategy to be between now and the next couple of decades, my view of a westpac high intensity conflict and how the PLA will want to prosecute it, is essentially two phased.
First of all the requirement is a "want" category not a "need" category in military terms and becomes "need" once it goes out to decision makers who approve the budget.
Secondly we're talking about a delay of approximately five years which will affect the extremely volatile period between 2025 and 2029 i.e. the next US presidential term. That factor adds weight to the rumour.
While your focus is naturally China, mine was Russia and I've been watching the developments in the theater and the ongoing war very closely since before 2014. All I can say is that the war blew everyone's expectations out of the water and often in ways that very few people expected. Most of it is very mundane and won't draw attention from military (equipment) enthusiasts but nevertheless it consumes resources in the same way that a flashy program like H-20 or J-20 do. It's true for NATO as well as for Russia and I refuse to acknowledge that China miraculously made all the right calls. Some decisions that we've been able to see were correct, but some were not (in retrospect) and now everyone has to adjust on short notice. This urgent necessity would very likely be responsible for delay to H-20 if it occurs.
Right now PLA is preparing to fight without the H-20 and that is likely the current plan for the rest of the decade as fielding a completely new platform requires testing and development of tactics which takes time. USAF has the advantage of having experience with both proper long-range bombers like B-52 and B-1 and VLO bombers like B-2. PLAAF/PLANAF have experience with H-6 which has half the range of B-52 and limited aerial refueling opportunities. Aerial refueling is crucial because of larger payload, lower altitude and a flight path that is more complex to avoid detection. This means that the likelihood that PLA would have H-20 available in any meaningful number (16+ in active service) before 2029 is extremely low. Because of that and the Ukraine war strategic priorities could have been shifted and I would consider that delay a prudent decision if it came to that.
However I do not necessarily see a C-5 equivalent as vital to the PLA at present. The PLA does not yet have a global strategic oversize transport need, and I certainly wouldn't see a C-5 equivalent as being more important than H-20 (if the two are even in competition for resources to begin with, which we have no credible indicator of yet).
C-5 or An-124 are not a global capability but an oversize capability. There are certain payloads that can't be airlifted by Y-20 at all - often due to volume rather than mass - and others that can't be airlifted without excessive range loss and those payloads may or may not be relevant to whatever CMC is assuming as likely to occur in some future timeframe.
Everyone is focusing on WestPac but since Russia's terrible blunder in Ukraine a different strategic scenario has become a possibility - a proxy land war between US and China in/around Russia and/or in the Middle East.
This scenario has an added benefit of entangling the EU and potentially shifting the dynamic away from WestPac to Eurasia in part or in entirety. That's obviously Washington's highest preference because WestPac conflict is a death sentence to US in economic terms while Eurasian conflict is economically manageable because it drags everyone down with the US. Hegemonic conflicts are about survival of spheres of influence, not survival of the state. Spheres of influence are all about relative strength of countries, not absolute. If everyone is weaker, change may not occur or may not occur to the same extent.
One hint that this may be a possibility is the scale of military expansion that Poland is currently engaged in. While it is still a hypothetical until the election later this year it may be an indication that another land war is envisioned in the timeframe of about one-two decades. Considering rational forecasting and Russia's current economic condition the kind of army that Poland is planning is excessive. And certainly China using Russia as a convenient proxy is a possibility due to the fundamental change in the relationship between the two.
In such scenarios being able to quickly shift large payloads at significant distance is very useful and China lacks that capability. At the same time H-20 stops being very relevant for many reasons that I won't get into here. In proxy wars direct kinetic power projection is not a priority like in direct conflicts such as WestPac.
Another thing that suggests alternative scenarios is AUKUS. The planned SSN base in Australia is at the coast Indian Ocean. Even for SSNs that plays a role. Paired with the timeline that indicates something different that most people focus on today - at least for me.
WestPac is largely decided in terms that matter to Washington so I would be surprised if there weren't efforts to invent a more convenient alternative.
All of which is to say I think there are reasonable arguments to be made that H-20 may not be an immediate high priority, but that also doesn't mean that the idea of "H-20 not being unveiled within 5 years" is necessarily reasonable, because I think there are reasonable arguments for both.
Nobody is claiming otherwise. I only provided an explanation for why the delay would occur if at the same time J-20 and Y/YY-20 were given greater priority - as Deino's follower suggested. Because a delay to H-20 without boosting J-20 and Y/YY-20 is better explained by technical challenges. However when viewed in tandem with that specific choice it opens up a possibility for rational planning. I gave my understanding of what could be the cause in such scenario.
Also this is another argument in support of calculated delay:
But, with the introducing of more YY-20s into service (and hopefully retrofitting the H-6K/Js with mid-air refueling capability), hopefully this can increase the payload capacity of the H-6K/Js for long-distance strike missions towards the 2IC. Therefore, even while the PLAAF are still waiting for the H-20 to enter service in large enough numbers, the H-6s themselves are still a pretty capable arm for long-range strikes into the WestPac for the PLA.
The only situation where that doesn't apply is a pre-emptive strike which is a strategic consideration. If CMC decides that it allows US to take that position as more convenient strategically then no first strike is necessary and VLO loses its most crucial advantage while numbers matter always.