I absolutely agree with this, but my concern about this is, will the Taiwanese realize it? People often seem to overestimate the sanity of others, as if they will surrender once we have better conditions. Yet people are often stupid, they can be stubborn, they can be obstinate, they can arrive at bad decisions based on past experience, and they can invite disaster because of the immaturity of their politicians. All of these Taiwan fits, not to mention its ruling polity's decades-long education of its region with the individualistic tendencies of its younger generation. Not to mention the control of the US as the foremost supporter of its polity either. People may like to listen to the strong, but that doesn't apply to the above case.
Sorry for missing the point, are you saying that Ukraine as a failed state still manages to control a group of people who are extremely anti-Ukrainian and desire to join Russia, and that the anti-China elements in Taiwan are on a lower level than them?
It's not that simple, I'm more worried here not so much about the Taiwanese, but the impact of 28 million Chinese language learners on China at all levels. The process could be a long one, like eating puffer fish guts, and the sooner you end the situation, the less toxins you'll have to deal with when the time comes.
We can only seek the best outcome, assuming that the US will not intervene for various reasons, naturally everything will be fine, if the US intervenes militarily, naturally it will be another matter.
But I can say to you that if there is going to be a fight, we and they must have a fight.