Please read the reply in its entirety. its bit rambling but good parts are essential.
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That's what I mean when I said "the difficulties which some small minded taiwanese would not fully understand".
if ROC would won in 1949 and communists are in TW today. the same thing would happen.
Even if the island of Taiwan contained not a single soul, it would still require fascination from China.
it has nothing to do with any distraction Chinese internal issues. actually this Taiwan issues has been a huge net minus for Chinese, it expends considerable political capital for this issue where it could just gave up and make friends with US. by giving up Taiwan. If China were operating on pure interest motives it would have gave up long time ago. but. no.
Why? Why do that. You don't understand because you are asking the question. right? seems illogical.
well.
because,
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You call yourself a Han Chinese? Right? The answer is with in you. your culture more precisely.
Chinese cultural is not only singing dancing eating food. it also included a set of Moral Norms guided by history.
One of them is: Whoever fails to make chiina whole again would be consider by history a traitor, and belong to the same class as those who kneeled before Yue Fei's Tomb in Hangzhou, in perpetual shame. I hope you know who those people were and how they are viewed by history. If any chinese leader makes a deal, they would be instantly compared with history, and their actions judged even by the simple peasant farmers in the hinterlands who may know nothing about geopolitics but knows what Yue Fei failed to do because of those traitors.
Taiwan just happen to be the last piece which Imperialists took away in modern era, and still hasn't made china whole again.
No amount of PGMs bombing or Blood would make the leaders, whoever they are, elected or not, risk being cast in knelt position and literally spit up on even 1000 years later.
You have to burned the entire historical memory out of every single chinese (essentially require either a lobotomy for the entire Chinese population or Thermonuclear war... no still couldn't ) to be able to lift that burden.
Ever watched Lord of the Ring? Frodo is that Chinese. that ring is the mission of returning China top its symbolic whole again. No matter the burden or the difficulty, the right thing must be done.
There is something to be said about the Chinese and their understanding of moral principles.
Actually Mr Chiang Kai Shiek held the same opinion and that's why on his death bed he still wants to go back and take over Mainland. On that account I consider him to be a same class as those who you can not understand why have the facsincation with taiwan. the fascination is not with taiwan, it is with making china whole again.
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I hope you can understand this response better because I included both your Ex-President AND a hollywood blockbuster reference AND somethng from your self proclaimed cultural background. hope you can relate. best I can do.