I understand what he means.
It's not necessarily an actual invasion, but the mechanics of what happened in Ukraine.
The so-called Maidan Revolution is portrayed in western media as a kind of popular "People's Revolution", when in actuality it was a really divisive thing within the country, best characterized by the rioting/arson attack in Odessa which killed dozens. By definition, the regime change was wholly undemocratic, even if the plurality of the voting population did support this (which we don't actually know because there was no vote).
This portrayal is how the groundswell for supporting the war was created.
We see the same thing in HK and Taiwan heavily in the last 10 or so years.
In HK, the 2019 riots were portrayed as a heroic struggle. Years later, we continue to see wild numbers thrown out like "2 million person march". The real number was much lower, and the only source for 2 million was an NGO (HK Alliance for Democracy or something like that, here's Reuters itself dispelling one particular case - ) whose funding came from the NED (hardly an unbiased source). Even if we take the number as a true number, it still wouldn't necessarily be a plurality of votes (HK registered voters ~ 4 million )
We see the same thing happening in Taiwan. Every military advance made by the PRC is seen as some kind of "threat" to ROC, America, even SK, and Japan, etc. This is a country of more than a billion people, and they are expected to just continue to fly J-7s forever. It's an absurd expectation, yet this is the media environment that has been created. Ma Ying Jeou was a fairly popular leader, he went as far as meeting Xi in Singapore to ease the tensions across the strait. Suddenly the "Sunflower Movement" derailed his plans for a Free Trade agreement and the DPP rose to power. What happens when the next Sunflower Movement asks for formal US protection in the form of a permanent base (like the NATO movement in Ukraine)? The government of the day could pass such a bill under the guise of "democracy" as the party in power and triggering a war which no one wants. It would be different if an actual referendum was held like "Are you willing to fight the People's Liberation Army to secure the independence of Taiwan?", but who would vote for that?
Hmm, by this point, I think most Taiwanese realize that independence means having to fight PLA. Otherwise, Taiwan would've declared independence already. If you are China, you know you will get provoked. The question is where your red lines are. Also, if the red lines are not crossed, can you respond in ways that strengthen your position.
The recent Pelosi visit actually worked out okay for China in context of Asian power struggle. We now have the former Malaysian PM coming out and saying that ASEAN countries should side with China.
We have former Singapore FM coming out and saying Singapore is definitely not picking side and that Chinese people in Singapore would be on China's side. This is despite some Westerners being convinced that somehow Singapore will definitely pick America. Anyone who has been inside Singapore and spoken with Taxi drivers, restaurant workers, hotel staff and regular people will know that local Chinese people overwhelmingly support China.
So, if you are making this much progress while COVID is still a large part of their life, just imagine how much progress you can make in another 5 years when RCEP is further along, BRI is further along, COVID is behind us (hopefully) and Chinese tourists are bringing money to these countries instead of Europe. Counter provocations with ways to gain advantage.