Only midwits without a clue are making fantastical claims about it being this magical invincible aircraft.
The midwits abound and have had the floor for a very long time. Accepting that it's a very capable aircraft while rejecting the mythos of the F-22 because the people promulgating it are obviously stupid is perfectly reasonable and is my exact stance.
In reality, as someone familiar with F-22 mission systems, it's a fantastic aircraft and still the most tactically capable air to air platform out there, with the only rival even in the same ballpark being the J-20, or the F-35
I'd put a very large asterisk beside that assertion. It
might be true today, but it certainly won't be once the J-20 gets its intended engines.
Having said that, I'm sure you have excellent reasons for believing what you do given the information you have access to. Given how sharp your intellect is, I'm sure you see that it's unreasonable to expect everyone here to concur with your conclusion just because of your access. If we had access to the same information, we might come to very different conclusions. Plenty of your colleagues with the same access do.
Just because this is true does not make those other, more fantastical, claims true.
Sure, I can agree that the F-22 is a fantastic aircraft. It's the latter part of your statement that gets my skepticism itchy. Now, I'm perfectly happy to be proved wrong, and I'm sure you could give more detail about where you don't think the J-20 matches up without the alphabet soups knocking on your door. Consider it a writing prompt - you've written splendid essays over far shittier prompts.
You saying you "don't believe the hype" because you don't know is a bit like me saying I don't believe you're well endowed because I haven't seen what's in your pants. Both are kind of silly premises to make either conclusion from.
That analogy, amusing as it is, fails because my genitals are not behind government classification. It's a question that can be settled relatively easily (you'd have to buy me dinner first). This isn't. You have access to information we don't and even then your information is at best incomplete (not a knock on you, your government doesn't know nearly everything about the J-20). Unless you're willing to be forthcoming with some facts, you can't just deploy the "trust me, bro" and expect unquestioning agreement.