The two does not have similar degree of stealth method used. One thing of stealth is the facade to be flat so EM waves bounce off to other directions. F-35 has a bumpy under belly like a conventional aircraft. Being larger isn't nacessarlity a negative thing for stealth, example is B-2. It is also worth to note that F-35 was not designed to match the level of stealthness as F-22 from its inception and will never reach that level.I'm not sure I would be 100% sure about putting the J-20 above the F-35 though. J-20 being larger also means (if similar stealth methods are employed) that it also has a larger RCS. Also, bigger radar doesn't mean it's better, there's other things like software that are just as import.
Bigger radar is certainly better if others are equal such as SW. And no need to argue about F-35 has any advantage in radar software, software is nothing except the algorithm which US doesn't have edges. The mobile network essentially shares the same knowledge and exprience with radar signal processing, guess who is the leader in the area.