It's a matter of the canards; both the US side and the Chinese side have misunderstandings of canards. The US has never flown canards on an inducted military fighter, so it tends to downplay the significance of canards, even though the X-36 was seen as quite successful. Moreover, the US ignores the canards on the J-20; the size of the canards, as well as the weight, drag, and stealth penalties of the canards, implies that the J-20 must be capable of being highly maneuverable, if still limited by its engines.
On the Chinese side, they downplay the effects of canard stealth on all-aspect stealth. We've all seen Carlos Kopp's RCS study of the J-20, as well as the PAK-FA. The J-20, unlike the PAK-FA, has RCS spikes off its center that must be attributable to its canards, something the PAK-FA does not have.
As an addendum, you guys misunderstand what all-aspect stealth means. The F-22, which is considered to be all-aspect, has RCS spikes as well; perfect stealth is impossible on an aerodynamic platform. But the RCS spikes on the F-22 are located in such a way that it's nearly impossible to target it; you'd have to be 180-degrees below it to benefit from the RCS spiking or directly parallel to the side.