65 mate and if it happens, I can't help it. This is the cycle of life.
Now I am being serious. I suggest you watch this movie, a desperate father willing to die to save his son.
Your user name has "Patriot". You should know that it is a word from Greek "Patrios" meaning "of one's fathers".
To call oneself a "Patriot", one must at least be loving one's parents. Otherwise one does not love anybody except oneself, and he/she can NOT be a patriot.
Your user name also has "Han" which is the Han dynasty. You should know that 孝廉 was a creation of Han dynasty to select servent for the state. The first word of that title 孝 means filial piety, that is caring for one's parent. If one regards oneself as the decedent of the great Han, one must act up to its standard.
Think about what you call yourself, do you deserve the two words?