I feel like for good games, there's really not that much complaint about anything. The fault is with management/higher ups that push poor development strategies, causing bad/unfun games.If you are so easily triggered (seriously, this is what those westerners call snowflake level, since LGBT is literally everywhere in both people and animals, you probably have LGBT friends/family members too afraid to tell you about it, even swans make gay couples lol), then I'd recommend waiting for a trusted reviewer who understands you to review the games and give you a list of trigger warnings (trigger warning: contains female protagonist!, trigger warning: contains LGBT content!, trigger warning: female NPC mentions getting paid the same as her husband!, etc...)
Game developers shouldn't be expected to list every single potential trigger warning in their games, that's ridiculous! That's like saying Black Myth Wukong developers deserved the hate they got because they didn't list any trigger warnings (trigger warning: no female main character!, trigger warning: no cast diversity!).
The world would be in a much better place if people just let art be art and not riot every time some company makes a product that's not catered to avoid their every single ultra-specific trigger (whatever side of the aisle they are in).
i apologize if I'm being a little harsh, but I used to work as a game developer and it's just long grueling hours, very hard work to try to get something good for the public, and it's fine to hear people complain about legitimate issues with the game (bugs, poor controls, clunky gameplay, etc...), but grueling over something for so long just for people to complain that something they don't even have to buy if they don't want is not catered to their every ultra specific need is exhausting, and it just keeps happening more and more these days.
The issue about cherry picking issues, I don't like it either, but the problem is that US state is shoving propaganda into every element. There are things which are so trivial such as just having a Chinese/Asian bystander/npc in a game portrayed in a positive light, even this can sometimes not be permitted by US state affiliated entertainment. Every detail is checked for example to be pro-US military.
China and Chinese are many years behind US in censorship strictness and especially vigilance.
All these things can seem completely banal, but that's the rules the enemy plays with, so I think it's reasonable for Chinese to step up and be more on edge also. If US will not greenlight a single positive eastern character or character with eastern values, China should not greenlight a single positive western or western valued character.
(do note I'm not talking about gay people here, I'm talking about westernised traits and tropes)