See I agree with you that we will never be friends with the US,
Never is a very long time.
What happens if/when China is a hi-tech economy that is 2-3x larger than the USA?
There's pointless for the the US to have a hostile China policy.
but "curtailing" bad trade practices doesnt mean full on cold War where the US cuts off all technology to China and forces the EU to do the same or the US will withdraw military forces in Europe and leave the EU to the devices of putin.
Trust me, if push comes to shove, the EU will swallow their pride and submit to whatever Trump wanted them to. Because Russia is an existential threat to Europe. The EU is more or less a client state of the US, both militarily and economically. They really have no choice unless they develop an European defense Force or makes peace with Russia. Which politically is even more untenable than just surrendering to Trump and the US.
Russia is NOT an existential threat to Europe.
Economically, the European Union is 11x or 4x larger, depending on how you measure it.
Militarily, Russia would only get as far as Poland, leaving the vast majority of Europe intact and at war with Russia.
Remember the EU also has an economy which is comparable in size to the USA.
So the EU doesn't have to submit to whatever Trump wants.