1/ Huawei has succeeded in having a perfect advertising tool like the U.SDirty little secret is that companies like bytedance, tencent, alibaba, lenovo etc are heavely invested by western companies/banks/funds, the likely hood of them being ban is less in ordinary circumstance than pure Chinese companies like huawei or companies with lower western investments.
Part of the ban besides knocking Chinas tech and economic ambition , it to also prevent a Chinese attempt to invade Taiwan. As long as there is no war, China will get the consumer chips. China just needs to hide and bide for more time at this point to be self sufficent. IMO, there may have been some miscalulation with "coming out" too soon especially with Huawei then seeing their entire supply chain wrecked.
2/ U.S has intelligence on Huawei's high-end supply chain...whether "coming out " or not, they also ban Huawei.
3/ that's what they want so they can develop a 100% domestic semiconductor supply chain system.