Jeff, what you say is true, but where was all the fairness talk when Japan and the West (including our own country) invaded China for rape and plunder? Where were justness and fairness when the Qing Dynasty appealed to "international law" drafted by the West for protection against imperialism? The West laughed at it! Do you suppose China of today would be more willing to adhere to international court's adjudication had Japan and Western powers actually obeyed international laws when China appealed to it?
If we go back decades, or hundreds of years and each of us act according to the barbarous acts and wrong things that have been done...and treat today's peoples, governments, societies, etc. as responsible for those things...then we might as well all pull out our weapons now and go at it.
There is no nation without such warts in its history, including the US and China.
It is futile to appeal to such justice, or rely solely on such lessons if ANY of us expect to ever make any relations today that are meaningful and lasting.
Yes...we all have to be wary. Yes, as Reagan used to say...we must trust, but always verify. But we cannot go into any discussion or relation with an attitude of complete animus over actions that occurred before we were born, and in many cases long before our grandparents were born.
That is why we have some of the rules we have on SD. That is why I say that China...or any other nation...MUST earn the trust and repect of those they are in dialog with.
Anyhow, those, IMHO, are the answers. Schemes to avoid that hard work or the time it takes almost invariably fail and lead to even worse relations in the end.