It always seem bizzare to me that US think they can dictate to others what not to do. "I should have a machine gun with 5000 bullets but you can only have a pistol with 50 bullets. If you are going to get a machine gun or get more bullets it will piss me off and I warn you! I will really be pissed off! So let's sit down and talk while I go get a bullet shield and my machine guns."
Ultra, The US is not "diictating," anything to anyone.
Analysts and others in the US writing about their opinions does not equate to the "US dictating."
Basically, to the american perspective - China is NOT allow to defend itself - developing nuclear weapons or ASAT or BMD makes american nervous, while all other states (like the other P5, or even newcomer to the nuke club) like India and Israel are allowed to pursue it however they want.
Now you are giving your opinion on what the "American perspective," is, based on pure opinions from others who only speak for themselves and not for America.
The US is not saying...or anyone else from my perspective...that China cannot defend itself.
China is NOT ideologically against US
Actually, the underlying systems (single party rule, versus free and open elections), are ideologically opposed. But that is not the point and is completely off topic. So let's just not go there.
right now they are pursuing the "american dream with chinese characteristics" - house (or apartment), cars, TVs, stable income, good income, food and safety.
I believe the Chinese people do wish for exactly the things you mention.
I think failing and spiraling of current situation is due to the American continuous distrust of China, and their sense of entitlement that they can continue to encroach and contain China.
I do not characterize the situation as "failing and spiraling." Perhaps it depends a lot on perspective and what has been experienced over 60 years.
Yes, there are some ebbs and tides...but all in all, both nations have a lot more areas where they depend on each other and are tied together than what separates them.
That does not mean that everything is rosy...and there are certainly potential areas for opposition and mistrust. But that is always the case between many nations...even allies on occasion..
China is a lot like a teenager growing up, with a traumatized past. American should give them more respect, and more space. By not trusting them and threatening them it only made them become more rebellious, aggressive, and unpredictable.
I've raise five teenagers to adulthood. You analogy is not necessarily a very good one because it implies that the US should act like a parent of some sort to China...which I am sure is not what you mean or want.
In relations between nations, the best policy on both sides is "trust but verify." If either side feels that the verification of what it perceives is happening does not equate to what it has either been told, or thought would happen...then you have to get together and hash out the differences.
Sometimes that is not so easy to do.
For example, I view the entire issue in the SCS right now as such an event.
As it is, this entire line of discussion...about the US somehow being uber-reactionary and trying to dictate something to China as a result of the PRC MIRV'ing its warheads, is simply OT on this thread.
Perceived US reactions based on analysts pornouncments is not what the thread is about. The thread is simply about the factual news taking place in the PRC with respect to its arsenal.