I think some people need to realize that the US has already flown demonstrators for NGAD as far back as about five or so years ago. Yes, the program was put under review, but I don't think the revealing of these aircraft indicates China is ahead of the US. Imagine if we had gotten pictures of those demonstrators when they first flew? How different would the narrative be surrounding the flight these aircraft today?
To be fair, it's premature to speculate just how the J-36 will stack up against the NGAD, assuming both programs will enter service.
In fact, no one will really know for decades on how things really stack up, especially in terms of all aspect stealth and broadband stealth, outside of a SCIF or SAPF.
However, considering the current state of the NGAD program, and the rapid progress that the Chinese aviation industry has made in bridging its technological gap with the US, no reasonable person should be surprised if the PLAAF fields a comparable 6th generation fighter or fighter/bomber around the same time as or even before the USAF.