It's interesting how history rhymes and this is basically the Mig-25 story again but with different actors.Manned vs unmanned is just an American false dichotomy used to rationalize them being poor.
Rich countries don't need to gamble, rich countries just build all of them.
America played up the B-21 hard. They said it was practically a 6th gen fighter, that it can use AAMs effectively, that it could in the future direct drone swarms. There was a belief (even among some here) that all aspect stealth/tailess design could let it fly through Siberia to attack China from the north, or drop JDAMs on airbases on the mainland coast, then safely return home. It was a huge scare.
And sure the B-21 is probably shaping up to be a very good aircraft, just like Mig-25s ended up decent or even great as well. But they were not the panacea that USAF claimed they were and scared China into thinking they would be. With subsonic speed and a size appropriate IR signature, they are not escaping defended airspace. Leading a fleet of 5th gen will cancel out the 5th gens' advantage of supercruise. And while MUMT and sensor fusion is all the craze, they've not shown anything outside the realm of J-20S.
US' insistence on claiming it had the perfect airspace penetrator and aircraft "leader" probably helped China evaluate how to make it's own next generation fighter(s) along those lines.