manqiangrexue
Brigadier
No. Inter-gender strife is the most horrific problem a country can have; it's worse than Democrats vs Republicans. Society can only function when men and women work together; every living person is testament to the bond between man and woman. When rival political factions fight, it is stupid and silly, like a man's right arm wrestling with his left. When the men and women in a country have a gender war, it is like an auto-immune disease that can kill the person at the cellular level.That's fine. The men can simply marry women from other countries
The fabric of society is built upon self-love and unity, Chinese men and Chinese women loving, honoring, being true to each other and working together for a Chinese future. That wholeomeness is the basic building block for advancement. If there is strife between the genders in China, we MUST sit down and resolve them to preserve the natural, biologically-dictated complimentary relationship between man and woman. The government must find any root causes of contempt and resolve them, and if that means that men must be less traditional and more forward with the times, commit more and do more to hold up the family, then so be it. You married a woman because you love her and you are willing to protect her even if it brings harm to you so see it through even if your heart doesn't thump like a racecar engine anymore like it did the first time you saw her. Men and women are equal but not the same so don't treat her like a roommate or friend. Treat her like someone you're dedicated to cherishing for life because that is what marriage is. To those not married yet, puff out your chest, be a man and handle the extra burden; don't push things onto her. Show her how great of a man you are!
Do not run away from problems and discomfort by seeking out alternatives (foreigners). Doing so by spurning women of your own race is like throwing your child on the street to adopt another one. There is no alternative. Your mother, grandmother, sister and eventually daughter are all Chinese women. They are yours and you are theirs, so be fully committed. If Chinese men and women spurn each other and strive to marry foreigners, even the Chinese bloodline is in danger. That is one problem the US can laugh all the way to the bank with.
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