"Ukraine is better than this, it used to be a little brother to Russia before 2014."
You don't realize how condescending that sounds to Ukrainians.
Do Japanese like to tell Koreans that Korea used to be Japan's 'little brother'?
If you don't know anything about Japan and Korea. Don't bring it up. Or you'll be the one insulting the Koreans. Their relationship is nothing like Russia and Ukraine. Go and read some history about Imperial Japan before talking.
Yes. Ukraine used to be a 'little brother' to Russia. What is so insulting about that? Remember that they, the Russians used the word 'brother' when describing the Ukrainians. Because Russia regards Ukraine as family, not as a subject. Ukraine since 2014 has become the USA's pet. Ukraine can't negotiate peace with Russia without the US's consent. Which is more insulting for Ukraine? Brother? Or pet?
Compare that with USA. Great Britain is USA's poodle. Canada, EU, Australia, and Japan are pets the of USA. USA doesn't want family, it only wants pets. How to make a distinction between family and pets? Look at how US allies speak and act. Look at their economies. Look at how heavily reliant they are to the USA.
All major powers want to have their geopolitical space. Russia has its backyard. USA has its backyard. If another intrudes into the geopolitical space of another, then shit happens. This is not decided by you or me. Wake up and grow up. The world is not rainbows and unicorns.
You want to argue about morals with me? Then do this. I want to know where you stand. Do you condemn the Nazis in Ukraine?