2. Why do the Pakistani - or at least some - always expect to get "tech sharing" or even the items for free? I must admit that is a feeling I get so often at several forums (esp. PDF), it's an attitude of "we are friends, we can get everything, and everything for free ... China MUST give it to us, since we are friends".
It's because most Pakistanis on forums (who are usually kids) think "tech sharing" is like downloading an app.
They don't understand that even if China were to "share the tech" of an AESA, or better yet, manufacturing a jet engine, Pakistan would not able to do anything with it. It requires billions invested in R&D and engineering over decades (mostly in universities.) Our defense establishment is starting to set up some of the required components. But we are very far away from "tech transfer" of top tier systems.