It seems you know a lot about Myanmar (Burma)? Where are you from, my friend? I've heard something about the situation in Myanmar, but not as clear as yours. Do you know that I am from Cambodia, one of the poor SE Asia like Myanmar too, surprise? I can understand the situation that you describe, 'coz things are similar here. Junta? The name of the Myanmar leader? If so, here is a different version of Junta in Cambodia, Hun Sen!
The worse thing in Cambodia compare to Myanmar is that there isn't much natural resource as in Myanmar. The better thing is that Cambodia is now a so-called democracy country. People here enjoy more freedom than you do in Myanmar. But then, the whole situation isn't anything better, there are full of corruption and bureaucracy. The whole economy of Cambodia survives by foreign aid, as the King (Norodom Sihanuk, The previous king of Cambodia) used to say "beggar government". (of course Hun Sen was furious at that time, he responsed by saying "don't forget you're also survive by the beggar money").
Well, I don't know what more I can say about Cambodia, a poor country, very poor. There are some MiG-21s in its airforce, but they are all grounded now due to no spare part and no FUEL!!!
Man, I feel a lot of sympathy for you and Davidka. Every country has so much potential. Some countries just have a hard time using it because of their rulers, or because of foreigners or whatever. But remember that every country on this planet has the raw ingredients at least necessary to join the first world. Of course some countries like to stay the way they are; Costa Rica keeps itself underdeveloped so it can stay enviromentally pure. It has a tiny population so revenues from tourism can provide for everyone. Myanmar and Cambodia are both in dynamic areas and if you removed the junta in Myanmar and gave Cambodia a responsible government, they would both easily join the ranks of the countries around them that are reaching for prosperity like Thailand, Malaysia and Vietnam.
Cambodia had the war. That is something that takes decades to recover from.