There are two main beauties of the 5th generation: true (shape)stealth and supercruise with meaningful combat load.
All others(mainly electronical)can be implemented in 4th gen aircraft just as well, say, F/A-18E.
Furthermore, if 5th gen for one reason or another hasn't calculated something in - it will weight on it's shoulders much harder than 4th gen.
Say, meteor.
Well, I'm gonna disagree, number one, it depends on which 5 Gen we are talking about,, (J-20 likely does NOT supercruise) so are you saying you don't like the J-20? I'm sure FC-31 does NOT supercruise either, however both do appear to have good RCS reduction shaping?
moreover, in order to incorporate the 5 Gen avionics of the F-35 into a 4 Gen, its highly unlikely that would go smoothly, the F-35 and likely the FC-31 were/will be designed around their 5 Gen avionics packages, those particular avionics require a GREAT DEAL of integration with the airframe itself in order to function, the same is true of the J-20, and that would prohibit effective integration of those same avionics into the J-15, J-16, or any other Flanker derivative for that matter, starting with EOTAS and working your way around the aircraft,,, that's just a lot more that you have imagined..
Even powering up the system, getting all those electronics and bus bars and circuit breakers, and switch panels, and heat sinks,,,, I mean really, you have no idea, radar, IRST, cooling, heating, fire fighting,,, even 4th Gens are loaded already with electrical equipment,,, not even considering sensors and sensor fusion???