Zoltan Dani had problems of his own.
He commanded a unit which was low on resources and vulnerable to attack by the F16s. But his men were not short on morale or skill.
Each night he would move his unit from place to place - operating the equipment in 20-second bursts to avoid the attention of anti-radar missiles.
Citing Serbian electronics genius Nikola Tesla as an inspiration, Zoltan had the equipment modified so i
t would operate beyond the usual wavelengths.
Perhaps it was this which allowed him to detect Dale Zelko's stealth fighter.
"When it hit, it felt very, very good. Like scoring the winning goal in a football match," says Mr Dani.
The US pilot's perspective was naturally a little different. But once he had ejected from his now uncontrollable plane, Mr Zelko had some surprisingly generous thoughts.
"I thought about the Serbian SAM (surface-to-air missile) operator, imagining having a coffee and conversation with this guy, saying to him: 'Really nice shot.' I had this huge respect for him and the Serbian people."
Dale Zelko shows his and Zoltan Dani's children the wreckage of his stealth plane
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The wreckage of Mr Zelko's plane is now in Belgrade's museum
This, perhaps, helps to explain why Mr Zelko was so receptive when the idea of meeting the man who shot him down was first floated.