Agreed gyy 2105. Once a person is an ardent party member or follower, he cannot change his thinking. Really sad that such a person/s is unrealistic to happenings in the real world. At least in most democratic countries, we allow even obnoxious and crazy people to protest or demonstrate peacefully, as long as they do not create chaos or riots. Try doing it in Autocratic Countries, not only the peaceful demonstrators but their innocent family members would be locked up. Get REAL my friends. No offense, just different viewpoints - i.e. to agree to disagree - and that's democracy!
Agree to disagree; is generally pointless in a forum which purpose traditionally as an instrument of democracy is to allow different ideas to fly and allowing a consensus to be made. Again, democracy have nothing to do with freedom; who define what is peaceful and what is not?
Why the abuse of police power is well known in the USA/Canada/UK/France/EU? and history have shown a great majority of western "democratic" countries putting people and their family under "house arrest" for "national security" issues or trumped up charges.
Agreeing to disagree, is more authoritarian than democratic; It is a my way or the highway approach and is in disagreement of what democracy actually is. Democracy, as in politics is well defined; from Cleisthenes, Plato, Aristotle to... modernity, Democracy is very well defined; there is no argument on what it entails or excludes; if you wish to invent a new term for a form of democracy which includes freedom and something else, be my guest. But Democracy as it is defined, does not include any such freedoms.
I.e. democracy, is a methodology to reach a consensus and therefore a decision, it does not garuntee rights or privileges except that every "citizen" is allowed to speak and participate. There is nothing against killing that citizen afterwards if he speak something undesired by the public. Democracy is a form of people rule; majority rule is a form of people rule; communism is a form of people rule. Or since Democracy is the original form of people rule, you can say that communism is a form of democracy. Fascism, Technocracy, represented democracy, constitutional monarchy is all incommon with stratocracy
So I would suggest you read up on what all these political systems is and where they overlap.