I think this romantic view of the cross Straits situation is not even remotely reflective of the actual situation.I don't think China would resort to kinetic options in the absence of severe provocation or crossing of red lines. I'd even go as far as to say that China would unlikely respond military even if Taiwan verbally declares independence without a drastic change to its foreign policy.
China's policy is that the Taiwan issue is to be resolved peacefully unless all options are out. The optics of a hypothetical conflict are extremely important and I doubt China would be okay with being the ones during the first shot.