A lot of Asian restaurants in Toronto, I noticed are all the same. Loud music Western popular music, the staff have a certain look to them, act a certain way. These are white restaurants, that happen to serve Thai, Korean, Japanese food. Even a lot of the Vietnamese restaurants are like that.
That I never noticed until recently, because I tend to eat in Chinese restaurants.
Then I realized, just a couple of years ago, regarding these restaurants, that the West, or more precisely, the Americans have won. They got all these Asians, who not Chinese, to mimic their cultural mores.
That goes for all Asians, except for, you guess it, the Chinese.
The Chinese, are like, forever fresh off the boat. And it feels great!
We see this in this forum occasionally.