Based on the scant information we have:
1) F-35 approached the Chinese airspace, possibly without luneburg lens, to gauge response time and capability of Chinese air defense network.
2) In this scenario, ground-based anti-stealth radar probably picked up the general location at very long range. KJ-500 became airborne to get precise intercept vector.
3) J-20 took off from Wuhu (or Quzhou) for the routine intercept.
Otherwise I don't see why General Wilsbach would focus on the command and control aspect of the intercept.
I don't think 1) and 2) are necessarily a given.
Command/control of an encounter can mean anything from intercepting F-35s in a timely way, or J-20s (with or without other friendly Chinese aircraft) in the region being observed in the relevant space coordinating in a manner that is brisk, efficient and silent/difficult to listen in on by their passive sensors.
Or any combination thereof.
There is also nothing about anti-stealth radar or KJ-500 described in the specific encounter with J-20 --- the part of the video about KJ-500 that is mentioned, is done so in a more general sense, describing part of the role in which KJ-500 plays in the PLA.
IMO, the only thing that we can infer from the statement that such an encounter occurred, is that such an encounter as indeed occurred.
I.e.: US F-35s have had at least one close encounter with PLA J-20s over the ECS.
I don't think we can confidently extricate or speculate as to any other information from the statements in the video.