What the fuck did I just read?
You gotta stop pinning blame on others for your own failures & Your life sounds fucked up.
Dude, can you stop with your psycho analysis. You're completely off. Here's what I wrote:
"The latest thing is the Donbei floral patterns on men's clothing, I think. That stuff is gay looking. Not cool at all."
That's it. I didn't say anything about how it affects my life. It doesn't.
All my friends are asian and they are all jacked, and married or in a long term relationship - there is not one person I know personally who is an incel with a bowlcut
You associate successful Asian men with being jacked (or at least semi muscular). Also, you associate bowlcut hair with Asian incels. How are our views any different? Why attack me for stating the same obvious things that you already believe?
Let's try some other way to get the point across.
Replace Asian incel nerd bowlcut glasses types with lonely fat women. They are both suffering the same problem. They are physically unattractive to the opposite sex.
Imagine lonely fat women complain to me that they can't get dates and want my help.
I say ", No problem. I've helped other women succeed. Here's what you need to do. Get rid of highly processed food from your diet, eat healthy, do low stress exercises like bicycling / rowing for 20 minutes a day to burn calories, eat two meals a day to lower calorie intake, and check your hormones for problems. Do this for at least 6 months because weight loss takes time and it's easy to get discouraged." This is all logical and effective advice that works for most women.
Now, imagine that lonely fat woman attacks me with ", How dare you! That's
fat shaming (deny the problem exists). A diet of Icecream, cookies, and pizza pockets are healthy. You are insecure and need to work on yourself.
Your entire life is messed up (attacking the messenger). You want me to change my style to
please other people. You are
seeking approval. I don't need to change a damn thing.
(maintaining the status quo AKA do not fix the problem)."
Of course, I'm pissed. I can see the woman throwing her life away due to misguided pride and she attacks me for giving useful advice.
Meanwhile, the people who are indifferent to her suffering or possibly malicious or possibly ignorant, tell her ", You go girl! Don't let anyone
fat shame you. You are a beautiful 10/10.
Everyone can be beautiful and succeed in their own unique way."
But we all know this is false. Fat women lose romantically. Everyone knows this.
What's the end result? The women's problems are unresolved. She continues to suffer. The
pep talk sounds good, but it's harmful.
You can see the parallels between a lonely overweight woman rejecting useful advice and a prideful Asian rejecting useful advice, right? It's the same dynamic:
They both deny the problem exists, attack the messenger, and maintain the self-defeating status quo.
Nothing China does makes a difference in my life unless they take over the nation I live in, which will never happen. If they get better at soft power / psychological warfare then it's good for China's defense. I get no direct benefit. If China ends white worship then Chinese people and especially young children are safe. I get no direct benefit. I'm not giving out this advice to "save myself". I handled my looks, money, and dating shortcomings on my own years ago. I don't tend to blame others for my results.