The main concern of US gov is to stop China's economic development and growth at all cost. Don't the last 4 years already gave us obvious clues ?
Like you said, it has been years. Why do you think there was so much back and forth from the US govt between killing Huawei and letting it go? Why do they still let Intel to sell CPU to the Matebook? Microsoft to sell Windows? Why haven't they forced TSMC to stop honoring all of Hisilicon's contracts from the very beginning? Why wait till now? Oh wait, they're still not acting on it now?
They don't have a through plan/endgame, that's why. At the beginning they probably wanted to push Huawei to the brink of collapse and use that as a bargaining chip in the trade talk, but their plan failed because they underestimated Huawei's resiliency. So they tried to push more, but it felt like a half-assed effort because they haven't even killed a product line, much less the company. News about forcing TSMC to stop working with Huawei has been out there for months, if you really want to kill or do maximum damage to Huawei, why give them all these repeated warnings and threats, but not dealing the blow when they're least prepared?
All these back and forth and hesitation means they don't have an endgame. Of course the US wanted to see Huawei (and other representatives of China's tech growth) collapse, but when you throw punches you risk getting punched. China is a major market and world manufacturing hub so they're capable of punching back if needed. It won't kill, but it will hurt. The US does not look like they have the determination to take these hits. And that's before COVID-19 even happened! Now with unprecedented unemployment rate, with the world's worst-by-far infection numbers, with the car and aviation industry in tatters, will Trump be willing to set another bomb off in the US tech sector?
The thing is, even if the US is determined to follow through on everything they were rumored to do, it is still very unlikely that they can kill Huawei, not to mention killing China's tech growth. Maybe they could force Huawei to stop selling cellphones and laptops for a few years, but not much beyond that. Huawei could turn into an upper stream supplier in consumer, automotive and industrial electronics, continue to be a developer of AI and cloud technology, and still be a 5G equipment giant. They have plenty of ways to not only survive but live well.
On the other hand, let's skip discussing China's direct retaliation, because the indirect part could be far more impactful. A "x% tech export ban" pushed to the extreme will effectively forces China to double down on not buying from US companies, even for parts not yet banned. They will also pour huge investments to build up competitors to essential US suppliers, even in high-risk low-profit fields that people were not interested in before. It also encourages foreign companies outside the US to de-Americanize their tech base so they would not be forced to quit the Chinese market one day.
These effects may not be obvious in the short term, but in the long run they could be very damaging to the US tech sector.