It's like when Ang Lee directed the movie The Ice Storm. He got a lot of heat from critics because how can this foreigner make a movie about Americans having affairs making the US look bad? Well the movie was based on a book written by a white person. Like I've been saying many times in this forum... In the US crimes are not determined by the act one commits. Crimes are determined by two factors... who commits the act and who's the victim of that act. I didn't bring up what's technically correct which someone else did that you didn't have a problem with doing because he was defending the US.
Ok I'll be honest here, it sounds like you are looking to bring a political issue into a technical space. I don't particularly care about US crimes or spin or narrative, it's all trash. The term ASBM refers to a specific kind of missile which means something in the context of Chinese Hypersonic Developments. If all you want to do is whine about politics then I suggest you do it somewhere else.
Lots of generic names have narrower and specific definitions than the names literally express, such as marriage which was never written into paper as between a biological male and female humanbeing and yet everybody agrees it is between man and woman until 2010s. ASBM was used by US millitary to refer to Soviet and Chinese effort to use a specialized ballistic missile to hit a moving ship. If the US millitary use the broader definition as you do, they would have already had ASBM themselves, but they never make that claim. So if it is not the name, what is US really spining? I think we should respect a specific term even if the letters are not perfectly reflective.
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Another example is EMALS which is a generic name. It has been broadly agreed in this forum to use it specifically to refer to the EM cat of US origin. While referring the CAT of PLAN we use EM cat.
If you have a technical distinction to make about terminology, then I think that is perfectly valid. And if the original post said "I think ASBM is the wrong term to use, we should use XYZ instead" then I would never say anything. What is not valid is using this thread to complain about some political narrative nonsense which may or may not be something the US is actually doing as opposed your paranoid imagination.