Oh well, now it's a toss-up between you and POP3. You, or you dad, says 10k tonnes and POP3 says 12k tonnes; hard to tell who to believe.
To be fair a ship referred to as sitting in the 10k ton class can easily have a standard displacement much larger.
Ship displacements are not always commonly reported by different people using the same metric of empty/standard/full displacements. His father could simply have referred to it by its empty displacement which makes sense because a 12000 ton standard displacement would logically be about 10k ton empty.
The 128 VLS part is nice, pop3 didn't mention VLS number so I hope that is true