My guy, your location says you live in Canada. By your own logic, you shouldn’t be living in Canada and you make up a bad immigrants. I would also guess that you live in a Chinese bubble without meaninfully interacting with people outside of it. Why do all these ultra hardcore nationalists always live in the west? You know it inside that there‘s a certain „coolness“ (for the lack of a better word) in the west. That‘s why you continue to live here. I know a Chinese girl like this. Every second sentence out of her mouth is how great China is and yet she lives in Germany. In her case, she would have to deal with traditional culture bs if she lives in China, especially from her parents. So many people love whining about the west and western culture and yet live here out of many different reasons.
I will tell you exactly why many Chinese people choose to live in the West despite a ravenous unapologetic love for China. It's because Western countries are filled with low-performing idiots. Life is too easy here. In China, a student can study 8 hours a day and attend every tutoring program the parents can find only to end up average compared to other Chinese kids. Then, this kid can grow up and get a job and work 15 hours a day staying at grunt level often being cursed out by the manager for mistakes because everyone is a diamond under pressure. In the US, that kid can study an hour a day and be the smartest kid in his school, all honors, Ivy League, etc... Then, he can work 35-40 hours a week at a 6 figure job and be constantly congratulated and promoted at work for being a super performer who should take time off to enjoy life more. Chinese people are like sharks; in a vast ocean filled with vicious hungry sharks, life is always on the edge. But Westerners are like sea turtles. Drop a shark in a sea turtle tank and he will be effortlessly fat and relaxed and never hungry again. And then Westerners will brag that it's because they have better water quality LOL
Westerners like to brag about their society for attracting Chinese people. "If your country's so great, then how come you came here?" They thought they'd stump us. They thought that the answer we'd have to hide is that Western society is greater. But the real answer is another stab at their fragile hearts: it's because the West is full of stupid people so an average Chinese person suddenly becomes a genius and it's an easy way out.
If we ever become true titans able to change the world, we often return to China to finally outpour our love and support for our motherland. But until then, our hearts and conscience suffer purgatory in an alien land for an easy life knowing that even if we gave it our all, we still wouldn't be of any service to the China that we love and cheer for behind a TV screen.
“When a dog shits on your lawn, you don’t take it up with the dog directly; you go to the owner.”
Or you could shoot the dog and throw the severed head on the owner's lawn. Both are good.