@Finn, I haven't been around here much in the last few months, but I reviewed this whole thread, and it seems you're brimming with enthusiasm over this. You use the word "revolutionary" in several places, and you seem totally aghast that anyone could call this a "NATO war". I am quite skeptical about this "revolution".
There has been a gradual evolution from the initial days of "Arab spring" type protests, to the time when it became a military struggle, still refusing foreing help, through to the period of suppressing the Libyan airforce and air defence and then to the current aerial bombardment in addition to coastal operation by NATO navies. The air and sea belong to NATO, even if "rebels" are the main forces involved on the ground. We all know how decisive air operations are in modern warfare, and in a country where most of the population is on the coast, and most of the inland area is desert... well, control of the seas is bound to be very important. You have higlighted the importance of NATO's "paving the way" yourself. But even on land, there appears to be growing involvement by SOF, "trainers", etc., and with helo's arriving on the scene, you might just get some ground action from NATO troops. There are increasing calls for this from various political forces.
Most significant, I think, is the fact that the opposition, at the very top, is quite tied to NATO interests already. The prime minister got his post, essentially, by negotiating recognition from France, and NATO has been instrumental in coordinating among the various bands of rebels. Supplies are also coming from NATO. Well NATO should be proud of its achievements! Morally, I would say these are the achievements of the rebels, as they are the ones who have really spilled their blood. But morals count for little in these things.
The question comes down to this: are the rebels utilizing foreign help to achieve their aims, or is NATO using this rag-tag army for its own ends? The most reasonable answer would be that both of these are true to an extent. There is a sort of "pragmatic" partnership. But which side do you think has the upper hand in this "partnership"??? Isn't the answer obvious? Not only that. There is an appearance of "unity" among the rebels, but, in fact, it may be difficult to even speak of the rebels having any sort of unified "aims". And it doesn't matter, because their new leadership and government have already been chosen by outside powers.
From my recollection, in Afghanistan, in 2001, most of the fighting on the ground was done by the Northern Alliance, along with some American SOF. The US mainly provided air strikes and air cover for the Afghans fighting the Taliban. Yet, nobody I know has any trouble calling this an American or NATO intervention! The media, or others writing about events in 2001, don't refer to this as a "civil war". The case of Libya may be more complex than this, but it has certainly evolved quite far from the initial "Arab spring" scenario.
You can hardly fault me for calling the conflict in Libya a revolution. There's a lot of people who are trying to use violence to affect radical political change and overthrow the government. Would you not call that a revolution? As for calling it a "NATO war", obviously you can say that because NATO is involved and is playing a decisive role. But it's Libyans doing the fighting and dying on the ground. So to just call it a "NATO war" doesn't really correctly characterize the situation, does it? Quite frankly I think it's a useful rhetorical device to minimize the Libyan element of this conflict and play up the "Western imperialism" argument.
I don't think there's any stomach in any Western nations for troops on the ground in Libya. Right now Libya is not a big issue in the US, but if we start putting in ground troops, it will be. I think the same could be said for the European countries. I certainly wouldn't want to see any foreign troops in Libya, that would just mess up the whole situation even more in ways I'm sure I don't even need to explain. Fortunately I don't think it will happen, mainly because I think Qaddafi won't last that much longer, but I very well might be wrong.
As for the question of unity amongst the rebels, well, we can't know what's going to happen after the conflict. Personally I think that the rebels are unified enough that they at least won't fall into another round of civil war if they defeat Qaddafi. If you'd like me to explain why I think that I will but I'm running out of time to write at the moment...
Finally I'll just say this. People can argue against NATO intervention as the West imposing its will on Arab country, drumming up a conflict to justifying gaining control of oil, etc. But what would those same people be saying if NATO hadn't intervened? If Qaddafi forces had captured Misrata and Benghazi and killed thousands? At least some of them would be saying that the West tacitly allowed a dictator (who they had arms and oil contracts and intelligence contacts with) to crush his own people, in order to protect "stability". I'm not accusing RedMoon of kneejerk anti-Westernism, but I will say that people who do think that way have the luxury of being able to say "gotcha" in almost every possible outcome of geopolitical situations.