As you said a while ago, I think it's a generational thing and also the order in which you watched the movies in.
I mean to me luke skywalker was as annoying for me in the a new hope as anakin was in a phantom menace. It seems like the whole skywalker family are all whiners before they discover their calling as masters of the force.
The connection between the prequels and real life events were interesting too, and in that aspect it's wrong to dismiss the prequel trilogy. But if the problem is the original trilogy has a place in people's hearts, and the acting, characters, plotting in the original and prequel trilogies were both not particularly "good" so I always internally giggle/sigh when people go out ripping the prequel trilogy to shreds.