I don't think they decided on J-31 (if true) only because J-20 production is currently slow. They could always work towards building up more production facilities around the country for J-20. It's slow at the moment because it only started last year so the facilities and procedures still have some improvements to go through before reaching optimal rates. Sure China is hopelessly outgunned in 5th gen numbers when compared to US + Allies. That doesn't matter quite as much because any actual war will be either very limited or escalate all the way to armageddon. As long as they have significant enough numbers, it does the job. J-31 playing into this doesn't make sense at all. The time and money required to get J-31 production started and matured will be greater than expanding J-20 production. By the time they can get 100 J-31s completed, China could have had 200 J-20s (as an example). Instead of building one or more factories for J-31, they could have used those resources to build one or several more J-20 factories and the manufacturing procedures for J-20 are definitely more matured than J-31's non-existent final production. Therefore your theories are incorrect.
The only reasonable assumptions to make behind such a move by PLAN would be to say that the decision comes either at some consideration for SAC (which again is not all that sensible because all are AVIC) or J-31 has certain attributes that makes it more suitable. It has nothing to do with pure numbers. Although it could have a lot to do with variety. If we assume J-31 is so much simpler, quicker, and cheaper to build than J-20, maybe they can come out with far greater numbers at a faster pace than J-20. Maybe they calculated the overall effectiveness of J-31 to be satisfactory for the numbers expected. Who knows. It certainly isn't as simple as saying two platform therefore more planes duh. Wrong.
China's moves in coming out with cutting edge technologies aimed at destabilising how the west plans for and makes war is the only military instrument they have in effectively defending themselves. Trying to match technologically similar or superior industrial nations allied with a head start was never going to work. Catch up enough to offer decent deterrence and explore these technologies is enough for China, remaining effort is cleverly invested in alternative leap frog technologies.