100% correct. 中国人太客气了. A lot of the problems facing China today are self inflicted. How can I say that? Simply because they are not assertive enough. Their language and criticisms have been more direct in the past 5 years but its not enough. Actions are what counts when it comes to dealing with the US.In all fairness to your points I agree with you emphatically on what your wrote, my question and rebuttal was not meant to attack your ideas but want to flesh out your ideas to see how far and how serious you are with such approach. In any case, your mentality is no different than Mr. Lu Feng of Peking University. He expressed an almost similar sentiment to yours in light of the Chip ban/tech ban enacted by the Biden administration along with the agreement and coalescing of its minions: The Netherlands, Japan, South Korea.
“There is a common saying in Beijing that describes typical human behaviour: you can't suppress your anger when you see a coward [见怂人压不住火]. When you think about it, this saying is actually talking about human nature. The more China backs down, the more frequent and heavier the blows [by the US] will become. Thus, it is time for China to harden its fist and develop the ability to grab hold of the other side by the ‘throat’ [扼住对方的‘咽喉’的功力]. Only then will the other party acknowledge that we both belong to a ‘community with a shared future for mankind’.”
If you're interested, you should read his interview I posted at length on the semiconductor thread.
You ban semiconductors to China? We ban rare earths to US. You want to ban solar panels and cotton from Xinjiang? We wind back soya bean imports and beef imports. Oh, McCarthy is going to Taiwan? This will cost you 50 billion more in treasuries. You want to sail up and down the Taiwan Straits? We will be sailing off to Guam and Hawaii. Military action against us will be treated the same if we fired upon your ships in China's near seas. This is how you deal with hypocrites. Don't even need to mention it during MOFA briefings. Just be consistent. Action for action. The instigators will think twice as they know the response will surely come, as likely as the sun coming up tomorrow morning.
China can keep her smiles and politeness to friendly nations but not to the nations who wish them a millennium of humiliation.