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I might be labeled as a hawk from now on, but I don't believe that soft power alone will get anyone anywhere. It's NOT that I don't believe in soft power all together. It's just that the soft power will only work with a big stick waving behind it.
Let's face it, we human are competitive (to say it nicely), or violent (to say it bluntly). We will only respect someone unless they beat us fair and square. This is true in everyday life, in sports, as well as in international politics. No one will give a damn if you simply say it nicely and present a logical solution. The US had been an economic powerhouse since the late 1800's, but no one in Europe gave a damn to what the US wanted to say until the US won WWII and showed them how big of a stick they could wield. The same was also true to every superpower in the history of the world.
There is an old Chinese saying that a leader has to know how to balance "En" and "Wei". "En" mean reward while "Wei" mean punishment and marshal prowse. You have to demonstrate loud and clear that you possess the capability to hurt before you can be nice. You have to show that you are being nice because you want to be nice, NOT because you are afraid and only begging to get what you want. Respect is won this way. And all soft power comes from the hard power. The soft power, or the reward, will only carry more significance when they know that you don't have to be nice. If you want, you can get what you want in any way you prefer. However, you choose to be nice and fair. They will appreciate your niceness much more that way. And your soft power will be more meaningful that way.
If you use soft power alone, people will interpret in as you are weak and you have no choice but to act nice. And they will consider it as doing you a favor like giving a few coins to a beggar. You will not get the respect.
Let's face it, we human are competitive (to say it nicely), or violent (to say it bluntly). We will only respect someone unless they beat us fair and square. This is true in everyday life, in sports, as well as in international politics. No one will give a damn if you simply say it nicely and present a logical solution. The US had been an economic powerhouse since the late 1800's, but no one in Europe gave a damn to what the US wanted to say until the US won WWII and showed them how big of a stick they could wield. The same was also true to every superpower in the history of the world.
There is an old Chinese saying that a leader has to know how to balance "En" and "Wei". "En" mean reward while "Wei" mean punishment and marshal prowse. You have to demonstrate loud and clear that you possess the capability to hurt before you can be nice. You have to show that you are being nice because you want to be nice, NOT because you are afraid and only begging to get what you want. Respect is won this way. And all soft power comes from the hard power. The soft power, or the reward, will only carry more significance when they know that you don't have to be nice. If you want, you can get what you want in any way you prefer. However, you choose to be nice and fair. They will appreciate your niceness much more that way. And your soft power will be more meaningful that way.
If you use soft power alone, people will interpret in as you are weak and you have no choice but to act nice. And they will consider it as doing you a favor like giving a few coins to a beggar. You will not get the respect.