I respect your holding your disagreement, but I am not interested in continue a debate with you about the definition, because it is neither mine nor yours.
Fair enough, since that is kind of my point also. Where we diverge is that as far as *I* can tell there is by no means any consensus on a definition among researchers either, so it's difficult to even appeal to authority on this subject. Here's a good primer:
In fact, entire papers are devoted solely to the question of nailing down what exactly should be considered a metamaterial:
The bottom line is that in my opinion it is a bit useless to even discuss metamaterials without more detailed specifics on what type is being applied. If even the experts can't agree on what "metamaterial" means, it should not be used like a well-established scientific term - it's best considered a buzz word that requires more context for proper appreciation of its significance. Does the J-20 really do something new or is there a precedent after all? It's impossible to tell merely based on it being described as a metamaterial.