his estimate was a good one even favorable for the J-20, If you consider F-35 weighs near 32 tonnes at max take off and F-22 close to 39 tonnes, so i think he gave even a very favorable weight, for example the smaller MiG-35 gets close to 30 tonnes.
The exact weight is classified at the moment, but a guess of 36-40 tonnes range is very likely the weight of the machine, however mat take off weight includes external warload.
A combat weight of 30-35 tonnes is very likely.
The only think why i would say F-22 could say weighs extra is the 800 kg extra of both TVC nozzles, the F-119, with respect Al-41, F-119 is very likely for example 500kg heavier than T-30 engine, but that only will add an extra tone of dead weight.
But J-20 has a longer fuselage so in my personal opinion J-20 is around 37 tonnes in a very light estimate or around 39 tonnes due to larger weapons bays and fuel capacity.
I do not care how accurate or not accurate his number may be.
What I care about is the fact that he presented his estimate as if it was a confirmed fact when in reality it was a random number he got from wikipedia, with a source that is not reliable.
I don't care about how favourable or not favourable his 36 ton number is, I care that he made it sound like it was legitimate.