The problem with all these comparisons is it is on paper. Your best weapons are always more than just military. They are also PR tools. I assume if you read Chinese news or English news only, you will always end up with a one-sided view. That is what the media does.
In reality J-20 is too new. It is still developing. F-22 vs J-20 will fuel some interesting discussions but there is no way to compare them objectively. I'd rather focus on one or the other, not the comparison, or you end up wasting a lot of time.
all of life is about comparisons, when the Chinese designer was promoting the J-20, what did he do, he compared it to the F-22?
that's how we make decisions, that's why we have a "forum", for the competition to present our own ideas, and test them in the public arena.
when the USAF commissioned building ATF, two competitors were allowed to each build a "proof of concept", same with JSF, two "proof of concept" aircraft were built and allowed to compete, and we the ended up with the best aircraft for the job each time.
If I were to ask, which is the better aircraft?? Mig 15 or North American F-86??? you have an opinion, don't you?