By how much? The composite components of the air-frame should give some weight-loss. J-20 is smaller, that's more loss. The original Su-27 used old Russian avionics. How does the weight of modern avionics comparable with those? Also, the original AL-31F used to be 122kN (Su-27 being quite agile on those) while the ones on J-20 would be at least 137kN (AL-31FN3 for J-10), possibly up to 145kN, which is a 12-19% power increase. All that plus the reduced drag from internal carrying seems pretty decent to me.
But then again, the F-22 is 62 feet but is quite heavy, 21-22 tons as compared to the 18 ton Su-27SK. Although it was fashioned a long time before where it may have used less composites, that it is way heavier than the older 14-ton, 64 feet F-15 still says that stealth comes at a heavy weight penalty.
First of all Your question includes much too much of pure guesswork: We simply do not know the percentage of the composit structures of the J-20's airframe. Also even if slightly smaller - e.g. not as long - the J-20 is surely more compact and surely has a decent internal volume both for weapons and fuel), even more we don't know how much weight the avionics has. As such I think it will be more or less a good estimation to be roughly similar to a Flanker ... but to conclude anything especialyl in regard to performances will be simply way off.
Additionally there is so far no "AL-31FN3 for J-10". that's a fact and the so far most powerful AL-31FN version is the AL-31FN series III for J-10B, which is however a completely different beast to the projected AL-31F3 - again there is no AL-31FN3 - ... making any assumptions in regard to performances simply useless.
Deino