Basically you want to move your pitch control surface as much angles as your maximum designed angle of attack (?)
And since F-35 has done 60+ AoA maneuvers that is at least how much the horizontal stab can depress?
Yes, you want the all flying canard to be aligned with or maybe have a +10 angle of attack to the relative wind, remember the canard is designed to stall before the main wing actually departs, that has always been one of the beauties of the canard. So with the aircraft at a 60+ degree angle of attack, the canard would be angled sharply downward when compared to the main wing, this is called a "long throw" movement of the control surfaces, and as you have so astutely deduced, the horizontal stab of the F-35 also has a very long throw in order for it to force the main wing to such a high angle of attack, the Lightning II was flown to 73+ angle of attack, and recovered. This is a very high angle of attack for an aircraft without OVT, so I'm not sure all of the parameters of the test, and how they initiated this high alpha regime?????
as I have stated before the J-20 is a very smart airplane, and the FCS is a wonder of computational genious, and seems to work very well, as I noted of several videos of 2001, it did a very nice aileron roll........