Speed just means you don’t need to spend a lot of time in places you shouldn’t be hanging around in.You aren't getting away from them by speed alone whe you're detected. BVRAAM is faster, and it doesn't really need J-36 for that, J-16 will do.
You can dart in and out faster than system can respond, but the only positive difference will be if it sees you regardless of your stealth. Otherwise, subsonic VLO will be detected later. And if it's this kinda of all-seeing radar network, you still won't go for supersonic design, but rather for something like low altitude dart Blitzo mentioned several pages ago.
And the cruise means that you can sustain evasion from something like the J-36 (including its missiles) if you have a head start. For example, there is talk of the B-21 operating from Guam — a J-36 could chase a B-21 all the way to Guam, and still be able to loiter overhead. Or chase it for 2000km+ as it escapes back to AK or HI.
The PLA was probably expecting that “full size” NGAD from Lockheed too. Not the F-47 poor man’s compromise.