Okay, now that everyone's had a chance to respond to the question, and the user has hopefully had a chance to reflect, I've deleted the relevant posts.
I will reiterate to people, this forum isn't a site for people to ask random questions, and if questions are asked they should be done so with some specificity and without grievance or personal animosity from whatever past experience they might have had.
I also advise to do some background reading around the topic first before asking.
We aren't askjeeves.